["I didn't want to freak you out" and "you've never done this before" are the first things that come to mind, but Eames stops himself from saying either of those, sighing softly and looking back up at Arthur.]

I didn't want you to know I was thinking about this until I was sure how I felt.

[Good, nailed it.]

And you've never turned someone before so I thought... Best to talk to someone who's experienced both sides.

[Stupid wine.]